小明来自一个贫穷的家庭
小明要毕业了 为了要表示对父母的感谢 他决定把扑满里的钱交给他们 但父母亲坚持不要。
毕业日到了 每人都会收到花 所以父母亲买了一束花 打算送给小明 小明开心极了 想到父母亲生活那么困难 还花钱买花给自己 没想到的是 原来父母亲认为买花的钱可以从小明的扑满里扣。
小明气坏了，跑来向我投诉。
他想到：死要面子，没钱还买什么花！
他想到：为什么我父母那么贪！
他想到：既然要我扑满的钱，为什么开始时又说不要！
他想到：父母是我的羞耻！
他想到：别人的父母都比我的好！
他想到：他们一点都不理我的感受！
他想到：我已经忍无可忍了！没有比他门更坏的！
他想到：他们令我丢脸！
在我看来，终结就是他觉得父母把５角看得比牛车轮大，还有不把他当亲人看待。
他没想到：父母也有想小明的面子。
他没想到：贪是因为他门的生活没有保障。
他没想到：不要他的钱是怕他辛苦。
他没想到：问题在于自己变了 不知从几时开始 小明只把父母对他的不好记着 再也看不到他们为他做的事了
我问他
是你要讨厌你父母 还是你父母令人讨厌？
为什么你把帮你准备毕业日晚餐当着理所当然？还是你根本没想过？父母并没有那么坏 是你太讨厌他们了。
Friday, November 21, 2008
Friday, November 14, 2008
Monday, November 10, 2008
Sister's Graduation
Went to my sis's ACCA graduation. All her hard works finally paid off, i am proud of her!! ^^Tuesday, November 4, 2008
晚餐记
(guard house 前）
Peter: cb SK, 叫我们下来自己又没到...
我: 那...那不是他的车咯...
Peter: 不是啦！
我: 一看他的死人头就懂是他啦...
好笑的发生了。正当我要开车门的时候，
一个女生突然去拉他的门. 我顿时吓了一跳，难道我认错了？
我瞄了车里一眼看见SK错鄂的表情。但那女生却还没发现，
还拉了几下车门示意叫SK开门。我立刻拉了Peter
走到一旁以免她难堪。
Peter（偷笑）: 那女的认错车啊? ?
我（忍得很辛苦）：不知道....璞...
那女的上了车，关上门，过了一下子就开门下来了.
我们忍着笑当没看到SK的车，望向另一边.
直到SK开门笑着喊我们上车。我们两个就一支箭似的
飞上车把门关上，然后再也忍不住的捧腹大笑。
笑到肚子痛，眼泪飚。车一停一停的开走了...
我：哈哈...那...女的....跟你讲什么？
SK: 哈哈....哈哈....她没讲什么...
Peter: 哈哈...她比我们还搞笑...
SK: 我问她“吃猪肉粉可以吗？但我还有两个朋友在外面”
三个人: ......... wahahahahhahahahahhahaha!!!!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
想回到过去
时间倒转 我们再次遇见
这次的表情 要怎样
要如何隐瞒 表现自然
不要了 要转身离开 不要了 误解和为难 不要了 错误和遗憾
再一次 再相遇 再一次认识你
有一种似曾相识的感觉
要怎么做 才能不跌入迷雾
能不能改变结局 能不能真的爱你
还是往事别再提
每一滴眼泪 是坚持 是不轻易会说爱的证据
我知道 是什么改变了
看到你 在变化莫测的云里走过
你的笑容 在迷失的旋涡里寻获
小溪的上游 有你的温柔
想念是一种享受
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
品味
真的有被感动到
文字 照片 你选的歌 多么有感染力
你的旅行 生活 感想 充满恫憬
以前不肖一顾的西方国家 被你拍的太动人了
以为只可以想像的爱情 好像在你身上发生了
如何拥有那么独特的品味？
不 我不奢望拥有 我只要欣赏就好了
你要常写 为无聊的生活加点颜色
让我为你的经历感动
让我体会 学习 离我很遥远的事
希望你是快乐的
庆幸平淡的日子 看到不平凡的故事
http://fishneverland.spaces.live.com
文字 照片 你选的歌 多么有感染力
你的旅行 生活 感想 充满恫憬
以前不肖一顾的西方国家 被你拍的太动人了
以为只可以想像的爱情 好像在你身上发生了
如何拥有那么独特的品味？
不 我不奢望拥有 我只要欣赏就好了
你要常写 为无聊的生活加点颜色
让我为你的经历感动
让我体会 学习 离我很遥远的事
希望你是快乐的
庆幸平淡的日子 看到不平凡的故事
http://fishneverland.spaces.live.com
Sunday, October 19, 2008
感动
是不是觉得生活少了点东西，没什么烦恼的事，却好像开心不起来，心里有一个很久没人到访的地方。
是的，生活少了感动！
快乐的感动，
悲伤的感动，
激昂的感动，
浪漫的感动，
温馨的感动，
可怜的感动，
很多很多东西可以令人感动。
但很多人就把自己围在高高的围墙里，
让别人看不到自己时，你忘了你也看不到别人，
走出你的围墙，
让自己感受一下，体会一下人世间的感动，
你才可以更认识自己。
是的，生活少了感动！
快乐的感动，
悲伤的感动，
激昂的感动，
浪漫的感动，
温馨的感动，
可怜的感动，
很多很多东西可以令人感动。
但很多人就把自己围在高高的围墙里，
让别人看不到自己时，你忘了你也看不到别人，
走出你的围墙，
让自己感受一下，体会一下人世间的感动，
你才可以更认识自己。
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Right Time, Right Guy
Was chatting with a friend of mine and we discussed about how to choose her Mr. Right. Ofcoz i started with memo's theory again, here comes memo's bed time story....
If there are two guys, A and B, and coincidently when you are happy you always bump into A and when you are sad, B always around you. If you have to choose one of them to spend ur life together, which one u will choose? I think 100% will choose B, but think again. Do you like this guy B? U will most probably relate Happiness=A and Sadness=B and you don't like this guy B.
So, right time > right person.
Another old time story. If you reach a beautiful beach and you can pick one shell and take it home. How do you know which one is the best?? Choose a place u like, draw a circle and choose the best shell in this circle.
If there are two guys, A and B, and coincidently when you are happy you always bump into A and when you are sad, B always around you. If you have to choose one of them to spend ur life together, which one u will choose? I think 100% will choose B, but think again. Do you like this guy B? U will most probably relate Happiness=A and Sadness=B and you don't like this guy B.
So, right time > right person.
Another old time story. If you reach a beautiful beach and you can pick one shell and take it home. How do you know which one is the best?? Choose a place u like, draw a circle and choose the best shell in this circle.
Friday, September 26, 2008
翘翘板
人生有如在玩翘翘板，有高有低...
两个人玩, 一高一低, 永远没有公平...
要站在最高处, 就要有人牺牲在另一边撑着你, 朋友，家人，或被你干掉的敌人...
但学问还是在自己一个人玩的时候...
你一直想爬到最高处, 越爬得高就越难找到平衡...
当你以为自己越爬越高，其实你已渐渐爬到另一端了...
其实人生最高的时候, 就在翘翘板的中间, 这里是最平衡的,你不必花多大的力气站稳...
如果还不满足要往前爬，那就自讨苦吃了。
那要如何知道自己到了中间？
个人觉得是生活平衡的时候。
简简单单,不会很快乐,也不会很悲伤的时候。
两个人玩, 一高一低, 永远没有公平...
要站在最高处, 就要有人牺牲在另一边撑着你, 朋友，家人，或被你干掉的敌人...
但学问还是在自己一个人玩的时候...
你一直想爬到最高处, 越爬得高就越难找到平衡...
当你以为自己越爬越高，其实你已渐渐爬到另一端了...
其实人生最高的时候, 就在翘翘板的中间, 这里是最平衡的,你不必花多大的力气站稳...
如果还不满足要往前爬，那就自讨苦吃了。
那要如何知道自己到了中间？
个人觉得是生活平衡的时候。
简简单单,不会很快乐,也不会很悲伤的时候。
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Shell Interview
I went for an interview with Shell last monday and i got the result today which is something like "we regret to have to tell you....", you got it. Em.. it's dissapointing but i have already gave my best in the interview =(
I can't find any reason besides i am not good enough for the job. I would never apply Shell again because i don't want to get rejected for a second time. Well, even though it's a failure, i would like to share my Shell interview experience to those who is going for one soon.
It's a 45 mins 1 to 1 interview session and they already have everything they want to ask within the time frame, so basically you don't need to prepare anything. Not really, the first 5 mins they will ask you to show your certificates to them, you better show them the most important ones which you are proud of since you only have 5 mins. After that they will ask for your career preferences, such as technical/non-technical position, flexibility of work location etc.
Next session should be different for everyone but i will just state out the questions they asked me.
1. Describe one of your experiences where you were in a team and you are having a different opinion from other team members. Advantage?Disadvantage?How do you overcame it?
2. Describe one of your experiences where you have to manage/lead another person. What is the issues and how do you overcome them.
3. Choose one from four topics. Can't remember the other 3 but the topic i have chosen was "Manage Company Reputation".
- Use 1-2 sentences to explain Manage company reputation
- Advantages/Disadvantages
- If you were the CEO for the company, how would you manage company reputation.
- Others (you can say anything related to the topic)
That's pretty much end up the interview session. Em.. i am pretty sure you not only have to answer the questions but you have to demonstrate to them that you are different from ordinary.
I can't find any reason besides i am not good enough for the job. I would never apply Shell again because i don't want to get rejected for a second time. Well, even though it's a failure, i would like to share my Shell interview experience to those who is going for one soon.
It's a 45 mins 1 to 1 interview session and they already have everything they want to ask within the time frame, so basically you don't need to prepare anything. Not really, the first 5 mins they will ask you to show your certificates to them, you better show them the most important ones which you are proud of since you only have 5 mins. After that they will ask for your career preferences, such as technical/non-technical position, flexibility of work location etc.
Next session should be different for everyone but i will just state out the questions they asked me.
1. Describe one of your experiences where you were in a team and you are having a different opinion from other team members. Advantage?Disadvantage?How do you overcame it?
2. Describe one of your experiences where you have to manage/lead another person. What is the issues and how do you overcome them.
3. Choose one from four topics. Can't remember the other 3 but the topic i have chosen was "Manage Company Reputation".
- Use 1-2 sentences to explain Manage company reputation
- Advantages/Disadvantages
- If you were the CEO for the company, how would you manage company reputation.
- Others (you can say anything related to the topic)
That's pretty much end up the interview session. Em.. i am pretty sure you not only have to answer the questions but you have to demonstrate to them that you are different from ordinary.
Friday, August 29, 2008
Lunch Time - how about some loves for dessert
What's the best love letter you ever written to him/her? Below were some sentences i copied for someone (when i was young), i forgot where is the source but i am just sure i didn't write them myself.. lol...
1.
When things are changing all around us
and the world seems to move too fast,
don't forget, I'll be right beside you.
So when you look ahead to future changes,
or think about how the past used to be,
Don't forget to look beside you
because that's where you'll find me
loving you
with all my heart
2.
Late at night when all the world is sleeping
I stay up late and think of you and I wish on a star
That somewhere you are thinking of me too
'Cause I'm dreaming of you tonight
And there's nowhere in the world I'd rather be
Than here in my room dreaming about you and me
Wonder if you ever see me and I wonder if you know I'm there
If you looked in my eyes would you see what's inside
Would you even care
I just wanna hold you close but so far all I have are dreams of you
So I wait for the day a
nd the courage to say
How much I love you
3.
time can wash up everything?
maybe, maybe that is right, i am starting to forget..
ur face, ur smile, ur shadow, ur back, ur voice, ur words..
but all the sudden, a spark can make me recall everthing,
and those memories like just happened a moment ago..
if there is a way to forget..
i would give it a try..
but make sure i can forget it forever..
4.
I'm not gonna lie how am I gonna be strong without you
I need you by my side
if we ever say we'd never be together
in the end you wave goodbye
dunno what I'd do
im lost without you
How am I ever gonna get rid of these blurs
baby I'm so lonely all the time
everywhere I go I get so confused
your the only thing thats on my mind
I miss you more each day
only you can make it right
no I'm not too proud to say
If I could only hold you now
make the pain just go away
coz i can't stop the tears from running down my face
5.
If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you
lol.. pretty good right? i am still loving it.. =P
1.
When things are changing all around us
and the world seems to move too fast,
don't forget, I'll be right beside you.
So when you look ahead to future changes,
or think about how the past used to be,
Don't forget to look beside you
because that's where you'll find me
loving you
with all my heart
2.
Late at night when all the world is sleeping
I stay up late and think of you and I wish on a star
That somewhere you are thinking of me too
'Cause I'm dreaming of you tonight
And there's nowhere in the world I'd rather be
Than here in my room dreaming about you and me
Wonder if you ever see me and I wonder if you know I'm there
If you looked in my eyes would you see what's inside
Would you even care
I just wanna hold you close but so far all I have are dreams of you
So I wait for the day a
nd the courage to say
How much I love you
3.
time can wash up everything?
maybe, maybe that is right, i am starting to forget..
ur face, ur smile, ur shadow, ur back, ur voice, ur words..
but all the sudden, a spark can make me recall everthing,
and those memories like just happened a moment ago..
if there is a way to forget..
i would give it a try..
but make sure i can forget it forever..
4.
I'm not gonna lie how am I gonna be strong without you
I need you by my side
if we ever say we'd never be together
in the end you wave goodbye
dunno what I'd do
im lost without you
How am I ever gonna get rid of these blurs
baby I'm so lonely all the time
everywhere I go I get so confused
your the only thing thats on my mind
I miss you more each day
only you can make it right
no I'm not too proud to say
If I could only hold you now
make the pain just go away
coz i can't stop the tears from running down my face
5.
If I could have just one wish,
I would wish to wake up everyday
to the sound of your breath on my neck,
the warmth of your lips on my cheek,
the touch of your fingers on my skin,
and the feel of your heart beating with mine...
Knowing that I could never find that feeling
with anyone other than you
lol.. pretty good right? i am still loving it.. =P
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
无力胜有力
有时候你要做的就是什么也不做，要想的就是什么都不可以想。
以前有一个人说我做什么事都好像有目的酱。对，人就是要酱。不可能的事不要去想。不要因为无聊，寂寞就掉进魔鬼的陷阱。它就是要你想多多，然后把事情弄到尴尴尬尬。以为我不懂么！
我的公主一定还在等我，不要被不能吃的苹果骗掉，对，就是酱！
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
等待
等待这个星期六的presentation，紧张，因为没料到。
等待这个月的薪水，快乐，因为努力有了回报。
等待爸爸妈妈回来，开心，很久没见了。
等待明天的到来，好奇，明天会有不同吗？
等待着一个女孩，期待，自己一个人好久好久了。
等待一封信，奇怪，会有人写信给我么？
等待答案，生气，我来这世界的任务呢？
等待问题，自豪，答问题让我觉得有用。
等待眼泪，感性，能令人感动的东西还真少。
等待天使，高兴，我有很多梦想还没实现。
等待一艘飞碟，梦幻，我好想到外面看看。
等待一场美梦，空虚，梦可以满足我。
等待一朵花，贪心，独一无二的花。
等待一场生死决斗，英雄，没有顾虑放手一博！
等待这个月的薪水，快乐，因为努力有了回报。
等待爸爸妈妈回来，开心，很久没见了。
等待明天的到来，好奇，明天会有不同吗？
等待着一个女孩，期待，自己一个人好久好久了。
等待一封信，奇怪，会有人写信给我么？
等待答案，生气，我来这世界的任务呢？
等待问题，自豪，答问题让我觉得有用。
等待眼泪，感性，能令人感动的东西还真少。
等待天使，高兴，我有很多梦想还没实现。
等待一艘飞碟，梦幻，我好想到外面看看。
等待一场美梦，空虚，梦可以满足我。
等待一朵花，贪心，独一无二的花。
等待一场生死决斗，英雄，没有顾虑放手一博！
Monday, April 14, 2008
街角的祝福
什么歌是一首好歌?
一首好歌, 是每个人听了后, 脑海里都会想起一个故事. 故事的内容可以是截然不同的, 但给每个人的感动都是一样的深. 我喜欢戴佩妮的歌, 但不是她在表演时的那首歌, 是她在录音时发自内心的那一首. 这首歌给了我一些感动.
这么久了, 我已经渐渐的忘了. 但为何一点微不足道的事, 却可以让平静的心跳上一整天? 记得那一天, 我害怕上天没有让我们遇见. 但如果给我再选一次, 我会避开你, 不会让我们认识. 那今天的你, 也不用那么担心会伤害到我, 那就可以全心全义的对待最重要的他. 我尽量的离开你的生活, 不去问, 不去听, 反正如果没有我, 你的生活会比较好. 不去过问你的生活, 也是我们沟通的最佳方式吧...
一首好歌, 是每个人听了后, 脑海里都会想起一个故事. 故事的内容可以是截然不同的, 但给每个人的感动都是一样的深. 我喜欢戴佩妮的歌, 但不是她在表演时的那首歌, 是她在录音时发自内心的那一首. 这首歌给了我一些感动.
这么久了, 我已经渐渐的忘了. 但为何一点微不足道的事, 却可以让平静的心跳上一整天? 记得那一天, 我害怕上天没有让我们遇见. 但如果给我再选一次, 我会避开你, 不会让我们认识. 那今天的你, 也不用那么担心会伤害到我, 那就可以全心全义的对待最重要的他. 我尽量的离开你的生活, 不去问, 不去听, 反正如果没有我, 你的生活会比较好. 不去过问你的生活, 也是我们沟通的最佳方式吧...
Friday, April 11, 2008
是什么让你活着？
一口气看完了 30+ 集的 Heroes season 1， 很不错的科幻电视剧。
现在除了记得它很好看之外，还记得里头的一句话。
"你是要活的快乐? 还是要活得有意义? 不可能是两者, 因为他们是背道而驰的. 想要活得快乐吗, 你就要活在当下, 不要去计划未来, 也不要对过去耿耿于怀. 如果要活得有意义的话, 就要对过去负责, 为未来而努力."
听了后我就在想, 既然这世界这么多的研究, 历史又是那么的被重视, 明显就是要人活得有意义. 难怪现在的人都不快乐.
我觉得, 人的一生, 就是为了寻找快乐和活着的意义. 大多数人在它的中间, 而真真正正成功的人, 会选择这条线的其中一端. 永留青史的伟人, 是活得有意义的人, 他们是为别人而活的, 非凡的成就造福了世界, 但他们离开这世界时, 是否记得自己的一生做过了什么? 有些人, 是没有人提起的一种人, 他们认为自己的世界只有他们一生看到的那么大, 在乎的, 就是家人与朋友, 糊糊涂涂的过了一世, 但他们离开时, 却清清楚楚地记得自己过了的每一天.
现在除了记得它很好看之外，还记得里头的一句话。
"你是要活的快乐? 还是要活得有意义? 不可能是两者, 因为他们是背道而驰的. 想要活得快乐吗, 你就要活在当下, 不要去计划未来, 也不要对过去耿耿于怀. 如果要活得有意义的话, 就要对过去负责, 为未来而努力."
听了后我就在想, 既然这世界这么多的研究, 历史又是那么的被重视, 明显就是要人活得有意义. 难怪现在的人都不快乐.
我觉得, 人的一生, 就是为了寻找快乐和活着的意义. 大多数人在它的中间, 而真真正正成功的人, 会选择这条线的其中一端. 永留青史的伟人, 是活得有意义的人, 他们是为别人而活的, 非凡的成就造福了世界, 但他们离开这世界时, 是否记得自己的一生做过了什么? 有些人, 是没有人提起的一种人, 他们认为自己的世界只有他们一生看到的那么大, 在乎的, 就是家人与朋友, 糊糊涂涂的过了一世, 但他们离开时, 却清清楚楚地记得自己过了的每一天.
Friday, March 7, 2008
Hierarchy of Needs
I think I am only at the Second level: Safety needs cause my life is not very stable at the moment yet. Maybe after i buy a house then i will be looking into the 3rd level. But WTF, i just noticed i haven't got one of the basic need, lol, you know which one is it.
Sunday, February 17, 2008
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
问题
大家有没有想过将来会是怎样的？我很少会去想还没发生的事，毕竟谋事在人，成事在天。有些人努力了一辈子，也没得到什么。
我姐姐franchise了一间subway来做。想叫我过去帮忙。我应该去试一试吗？工字不出头，难道打工一辈子吗，在这里我是不可能省到钱的。更别说可以做出什么名堂，厉害的人多的呢。但如果过去了不喜欢怎样，做了几年还是一事无成的话那不更惨？也不懂自己想怎样，一个人无牵无挂的，成功也没什么，失败也没人理。-__-"
公司最近重点栽培着我的senior，他早进我一点点，得到赏识，变成了我的PM。他人很不错的，做事认真，但有时觉得他严肃了一点点。希望可以合作愉快吧。如果他快点学会所有东西的话。我就可以计划离开了，公司是好公司，但没什么值得留恋的。
我看我应该是时候搬家了，住了这么久，懒惰换环境了。不过我同学的家，始终不是长留之地。当人家的家好像酒店一样，都不知他喜不喜欢呢。该搬到哪里呢？一个不会闷，又有私人空间的地方。^^
新年要到了，去年发生的那件事，希望是我这一生最坏的。新的一年要把它忘了。这一年的展望不再是找女朋友了，是要抱着坦荡荡的心，做的事都不可违背自己的意愿。那就好了。
我姐姐franchise了一间subway来做。想叫我过去帮忙。我应该去试一试吗？工字不出头，难道打工一辈子吗，在这里我是不可能省到钱的。更别说可以做出什么名堂，厉害的人多的呢。但如果过去了不喜欢怎样，做了几年还是一事无成的话那不更惨？也不懂自己想怎样，一个人无牵无挂的，成功也没什么，失败也没人理。-__-"
公司最近重点栽培着我的senior，他早进我一点点，得到赏识，变成了我的PM。他人很不错的，做事认真，但有时觉得他严肃了一点点。希望可以合作愉快吧。如果他快点学会所有东西的话。我就可以计划离开了，公司是好公司，但没什么值得留恋的。
我看我应该是时候搬家了，住了这么久，懒惰换环境了。不过我同学的家，始终不是长留之地。当人家的家好像酒店一样，都不知他喜不喜欢呢。该搬到哪里呢？一个不会闷，又有私人空间的地方。^^
新年要到了，去年发生的那件事，希望是我这一生最坏的。新的一年要把它忘了。这一年的展望不再是找女朋友了，是要抱着坦荡荡的心，做的事都不可违背自己的意愿。那就好了。
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